Part of the problem that come from "blaming the victim" is not so much the definition of blame, but whether there was a victim in the first place.
"You're blaming the victim," is intended to stop the conversation just like accusations of racism.
What I am seeing is too many SJW cases, there isn't really a victim.
That's what many of these debates are actually about, whether something that was previously victimless has become something that has a victim. I notice that victim status is something that's sought very eagerly by some and it never leads to anything good when they do.
The thing is, a lot of people get victimized by doing things they shouldn't be doing. I'm sorry, but getting smashed out of your skull at a fraternity party and going upstairs with the fraternity prez to his room is not a wise move, Miss...no matter how much of an empowered womyn you may think you are. And getting something for nothing doesn't happen in real life, or not often enough to make it worthwhile to try to do so.
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