You may notice a new pic on the sidebar. Update: It was removed for two reasons. First, the coming out was a total non-event. The gun blogs are apparently quite accepting of transgender. Second, the support I was showing was not in any way reciprocated publicly; with my issues I was told privately to "grow up" or "get help".
Erin Palette, the gunblogosphere's bratty little sister, has come forward and shown us that she is a "he" via a photo.
She's posted a very long explanation of what's going on and says it far better than I would here.
I'm on her side here, so if you've something negative to say about it, don't bother I'll just memory hole it for you.